I have prostate cancer and have to have surgery to remove the prostate, I will always be incontinent what can I do?

I am 51 and have just been told that I have prostate cancer and have to have surgery to remove the prostate. I am a very active man with the ladies and I would be devastated to have to stop seeing women as I like their touch. My doctor told me that I will always be incontinent of urine and won’t be able to control it. Please tell me there is something I can do as life is not worth living if I have to give up women.

Male · Asked by G. H. about 1 year ago

Our expert answered:

The good news is that incontinence following prostate surgery generally lessens within six months to one year – and in many cases continence is fully restored.

However in the meantime, one of the concerning things for men is when they have problems with their genital areas and prostate surgery is a major operation for a man. Yes, you will have problems with being incontinent to begin with, along with other sexuality issues.

However, what you can do prior to the surgery is find someone that you can speak with and feel comfortable discussing intimate feelings with, such as a counsellor who is impartial. It would also be a good idea for to make contact with a Continence Advisor in your local area. To find a Continence Advisor call The Continence Foundation of Australia on freecall 1800 00 33 66.

The Continence Advisor will assist you in meeting your needs by developing a program and will also be able to find the most appropriate incontinence aid that you can use whilst you are in the healing phase.

It might also be advisable that you can find a support group of men in a similar situation. The hospital that you are having the surgery at can advise you of a relevant group.

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